Monday, 28 November 2011

The final element of success

Values ??is our brain to determine whether implementation of the system.

From the clothes you wear, the car open, and lived in the house, the way to raising children, all of this all around by the values. It is the act of man's standards, the release of the magic in our hearts the most important key to understanding and we relied on to determine the behavior of themselves and others.

Values ??is how to generate it? It very special, very emotional, is derived from your beliefs, and are subject to environmental impact. When you were a child, the parents will help you nurture values. They stand on their values, continue to tell you what should or should not do and what should or should not see, what I can trust. If you follow them, it would be appreciated; if you heard their words, they were reprimanded, and even punishment.

In fact, when your children the values ??of most of the measures through the formation of reward and punishment. When you grow older, the values ??of the surrounding playmates become another source, they have values ??different from yours. You may be combining their values, or changes in their own, because if you do not so the other kids do not play with you, and even beat you. Because in your life, continue to make new friends, you influence each other's values, or even accept the new values. In addition you may also have psychological hero worship, and thus imitate their words and deeds. The reason why many older children will be addicted to drugs, because some of the star's favorite, and thus lost to the star in drug addiction that line. Fortunately, today many of their heroes, know as a public figure, the values ??for the formation of the community has a great responsibility, and therefore refuse to use and do not support others to use drugs. There are many artists clearly know that their reports through the media, driven by social values ??for living in a pivotal position. Geldof has organized as the singer, universally through the media launched a non-major aid operation to save African famine and organized a number of concerts. Because of their efforts and promote and strengthen the people's concern for social values.

The formation of personal values, not necessarily by the celebrity influence in the individual workplace, through reward and punishment system, will change a person's values. For example, long-term services you frequently in a particular company or person working under the command, your values ??will be affected. If your values ??are different with the boss, promotion is not easy; if you and the company's values ??(culture) or not, the work is very painful. Teachers who teach in the school because of rewards and punishments are often different standards, which will affect students' values.

When we pursue the goal of self-identification or changes, values ??will change. For example, if you are determined to climb the company's high-end job, your attitude will change; when you get that position, the company's views are not as many things as before. Values ??due to their target, they are different due to changes in identity. Then you open the car, to go, the friends, do, show your self-identification.

The same thing, everyone's values ??are different.


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